Your spouse was meeting an opposite sex that he or she met on Xanga without telling you. You found out of this meeting from a friend who saw them together. How do you take to this situation?
I would wait and hear the explanation from my spouse … could be planning a surprise party for me … hehe
what r other ‘cues’?????……i’d be suspicious but i’d still be confident in my spouse of not doing anything stupid….
Yes. Be patient and hear the explanation before any action.
I would be upset. I’d certainly need an explanation. I would expect him to tell me ahead of time, and give me the chance to meet her with him…. Listen for the explanation, but it had better be a good one!
Ask questions then listen to the explanation.
It’s not irrational to be upset, that’s for sure.
I would wonder why he didn’t mention he was meeting an online friend, in person. It doesn’t happen every day. If it was a delicate personal business thing, maybe I would understand–but really he should have said something. Not to is just…wrong.
I would definitely be offended because he has not been honest.
Ask them why they were meeting.
Better be a good explanation. It also depends on how honest and open you both are to each other to begin with. Do you tell him everything? Does he know all the guy friends that you have? And does he do the same to you? If so then he wasn’t being honest about it this time. If not then he’s free to meet new friends. Personally, I would be suspicious and I would confront him for an explanation. Like I said, better be a good one.
whoop him good.
no but really…go with your gut, its always right about this kinda stuff.
Hum… how are things on the home front! Hope this works out for your best entrust girl!
Time to get out the knife and Lorena Bobbit him.
will confront the situation head on & wait for a pretty GOOD explanation. one thing though & will be a bit of a struggle … with suspicion, the trust will go down.
I’d freak at first…but I’d certainly confront him about it…why was it necessary to keep this from me? Been there…
“To live, to love, to learn, and to leave a legacy” – Yes, that’s the common denominator of our heroes, saints, mystics… I know you will also leave a legacy… Have a great day then…
The spouse and the other sex-opposite Xangan were still so naive to be seen together by another friend! Their next rendezvous may be in secret.
I would definitely ask him why he didn’t tell me. Judi
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I would wait and hear the explanation from my spouse … could be planning a surprise party for me … hehe
what r other ‘cues’?????……i’d be suspicious but i’d still be confident in my spouse of not doing anything stupid….
Yes. Be patient and hear the explanation before any action.
I would be upset. I’d certainly need an explanation. I would expect him to tell me ahead of time, and give me the chance to meet her with him…. Listen for the explanation, but it had better be a good one!
Ask questions then listen to the explanation.
It’s not irrational to be upset, that’s for sure.
I would wonder why he didn’t mention he was meeting an online friend, in person. It doesn’t happen every day. If it was a delicate personal business thing, maybe I would understand–but really he should have said something. Not to is just…wrong.
I would definitely be offended because he has not been honest.
Ask them why they were meeting.
Better be a good explanation.
It also depends on how honest and open you both are to each other to begin with. Do you tell him everything? Does he know all the guy friends that you have? And does he do the same to you? If so then he wasn’t being honest about it this time. If not then he’s free to meet new friends.
Personally, I would be suspicious and I would confront him for an explanation. Like I said, better be a good one.
whoop him good.
no but really…go with your gut, its always right about this kinda stuff.
Hum… how are things on the home front! Hope this works out for your best entrust girl!
Time to get out the knife and Lorena Bobbit him.
will confront the situation head on & wait for a pretty GOOD explanation. one thing though & will be a bit of a struggle … with suspicion, the trust will go down.
I’d freak at first…but I’d certainly confront him about it…why was it necessary to keep this from me? Been there…
“To live, to love, to learn, and to leave a legacy” – Yes, that’s the common denominator of our heroes, saints, mystics… I know you will also leave a legacy… Have a great day then…
The spouse and the other sex-opposite Xangan were still so naive to be seen together by another friend! Their next rendezvous may be in secret.
I would definitely ask him why he didn’t tell me. Judi