August 17, 2006

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  People are obsessed about stupid things that they can not change at the present time.  They swap stories with friends, neighbors, and coworkers about how other people mistreat them, how their  exes should or shouldn’t do, how so and so should behave, how the war should be so and so….. and massage one another’s hearts about the things they can do nothing about.  What would this do except strengthens their own ego and weakens their ability to make things happen on the issues and concerns that they can do something about.  Their past holds their present and future hostage. 

  
  

   

  
  

  People who don’t have their own deep internal act together seek their security from sources outside themselves.  When focus outside and believe that their problem is caused by someone else rather than their attachment to the story they believe in the moment, they are their own victims and situation appears to be hopeless.  Then they fall into the trap of codependency and engage in destructive, cancerous behaviors such as criticizing, complaining, comparing, competing, and contending (emotional cancers).  These malignant emotional cancers metastasize their cancerous cells into their relationships and no wonder their world is so polarized, so divided, and so painful.

  
  

   

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