December 19, 2006

  • I am losing interest in participating judgments over others.  I don’t find it cool when people get together to gossip and complain about other people, especially their  spouses and children.  I do not find it amusing when people get together to judge and laugh over how stupid or silly other people are.  This kind of conversation gives me a feeling of separation and I find them painful.  It drains my energy and makes me tired; and it is hazardous to my relationships, my health, and my overall well beings. 

     

    I also don’t find it amusing to engage in debates over religion, Truth, God or any other topics that would eventually separate and ultimately pollute my environment with judgment and negativity.    I feel that I could never win anyway, no matter how hard the defensive shield is being erected and how large the ego is being puffed up.  The appearance of what seem to be tough and puffed is just the many forms of nothingness.